It makes me very sad to see so many women afraid to seek legal abortions because of fears they have due to lies and abuse spread by the anti-choice movement. Please listen to your heart and please, please hold your head high and do whatever it is, abort or not, that you know is right for you and your life. You don’t need to give a reason for your abortion; the fact that you feel it is right for you is all you need. People will always judge us no matter what we do in life, we can’t please everyone…but we do have the choice to do what is right and best for us, and take comfort in knowing that doing this simple thing, taking care of YOURSELF as well as the future for all involved makes you a caring, good, intelligent and loving woman.
Getting pregnant doesn’t mean you are doomed to give birth or doomed to raise a kid at this time if it is not what you want. If you don’t want your pregnancy don’t let fear control you; forget others, listen to your heart, and no matter what they think- you do what is best for yourself. Reach out to people who are open minded and not out to make the choice for you. And please, take comfort in knowing that the fears you have of judgment is temporary…they don’t care about your well being. They are willing to lie, create information and call it facts despite it isn’t facts at all. Even legally there is admission that it is okay for doctors to lie to patients about abortion; misrepresenting the facts.
Anyone who wants to control you is not someone you need right now… Anyone who can’t understand that this is a choice you must make on your own isn’t trying to understand… There are people who do, and who will be with you no matter what choice you make.
As I noted, I’m very behind with emails, I lost a loved one and have been having other random issues and haven’t been around very much lately. I will reply, I’ve got a lot of catching up to do. Please continue to email me if you desire, or check out my site. I have resources to other people you can talk to and much more available there. Above all else; remember…
ABORTION IS NOT BAD; YOU ARE NOT BAD. ABORTION IS NOT MURDER. YOU ARE A GOOD WOMAN, MAKING A CHOICE THAT IS THE RIGHT CHOICE, YOU UNDERSTAND GIVING BIRTH IS A BIG DEAL AND NOT SOMETHING TO DO SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU’RE PREGANT- WHAT DO *YOU* WANT? WHAT IS RIGHT FOR *YOU*? IF YOU FIND IT IS ABORTION, THAT IS OKAY, BE IT LATE TERM OR FIRST TRIMESTER. THERE IS NOTHING BAD OR WRONG WITH THIS MEDICAL PROCEDURE; PLEASE, TAKE PRIDE IN DOING THE RIGHT THING EVEN WHEN FACING THESE HORRIBLE ANTI-CHOICE PEOPLE AND THEIR LIES.
Abortion is a blessing to me. It always will be. It may not be right for all; I’m not saying it is. But for me, and many other women; it is, and always will be. Be proud of who you are.
