Video: When Anti's Try to "Attack"...

Video on the most popular 'claims' and 'attacks' the anti-choice movement makes against anyone who is pro-choice or, like me, pro-abortion (if you don't know what it means to be pro-abortion, see my page explaining what it means). I read these 5 in an article yesterday and made a quick video, remember to never let them get you down. Abortion is not bad; abortion is not murder. Abortion is a medical choice and it is a very important choice that is up to you, and you alone. Never feel bad for considering or having an abortion. Below is the link to the original article.

Original and complete article found HERE.

Part1: What Anti's Don't Say About Child Birth

Anti's would have women believe that raising a child is something we must do without a second thought. Never do they mention the life altering responsibility women carry through pregnancy and after birth. As too many women state, when they mentioned wanting an abortion to their personal doctor too many were met with a speech about the "joys of motherhood". For some women this is news worthy of joy; the women who want and are ready to be a mother. This is not an anti-childbirth post, rather it is a post to say it is okay to feel something other than 'joy' about pregnancy. You are not alone. Additionally, if you feel the fetus to be child is unwanted, that does not make you a bad person as some anti's would have you believe. That means you are realistic and don't want to bring an unwanted being into this world to suffer. This makes you a GOOD woman.

First, I wanna talk about the side of raising a child no one tells women about. Being that I've never had a child (but have been pregnant and aborted thankfully) I have interviewed random women who have children; women of different ages, grandmothers included, financial positions, nationalities, jobs, students and teens.Though I am positive they all loved their children more than one told me they regretted giving birth. Finally, I've also posted information from the internet.

Two years ago I watched my sister-in-law, who I've always admired and who always had everything together, struggle and lose confidence while getting used to being a mother. She desperately wanted the baby, and she is a great mother as is her precious child. But I remember thinking, wow, if someone as strong as she struggles, how am I going to handle pregnancy? 

No one talks about the change in life pregnancy brings. It almost seems they are trying to use forced motherhood and in some cases marriage as well to show their are consequences in having sex. Yes, there are. But those consequences should not ruin the lives of those involved; especially

Fear of Judgment Shouldn't Be Why Women Risk Their Lives - Abortion Video

It makes me very sad to see so many women afraid to seek legal abortions because of fears they have due to lies and abuse spread by the anti-choice movement. Please listen to your heart and please, please hold your head high and do whatever it is, abort or not, that you know is right for you and your life. You don’t need to give a reason for your abortion; the fact that you feel it is right for you is all you need. People will always judge us no matter what we do in life, we can’t please everyone…but we do have the choice to do what is right and best for us, and take comfort in knowing that doing this simple thing, taking care of YOURSELF as well as the future for all involved makes you a caring, good, intelligent and loving woman.    

Getting pregnant doesn’t mean you are doomed to give birth or doomed to raise a kid at this time if it is not what you want. If you don’t want your pregnancy don’t let fear control you; forget others, listen to your heart, and no matter what they think- you do what is best for yourself. Reach out to people who are open minded and not out to make the choice for you. And please, take comfort in knowing that the fears you have of judgment is temporary…they don’t care about your well being. They are willing to lie, create information and call it facts despite it isn’t facts at all. Even legally there is admission that it is okay for doctors to lie to patients about abortion; misrepresenting the facts. Anyone who wants to control you is not someone you need right now… Anyone who can’t understand that this is a choice you must make on your own isn’t trying to understand… There are people who do, and who will be with you no matter what choice you make.

As I noted, I’m very behind with emails, I lost a loved one and have been having other random issues and haven’t been around very much lately. I will reply, I’ve got a lot of catching up to do. Please continue to email me if you desire, or check out my site. I have resources to other people you can talk to and much more available there. Above all else; remember…

ABORTION IS NOT BAD; YOU ARE NOT BAD. ABORTION IS NOT MURDER. YOU ARE A GOOD WOMAN, MAKING A CHOICE THAT IS THE RIGHT CHOICE, YOU UNDERSTAND GIVING BIRTH IS A BIG DEAL AND NOT SOMETHING TO DO SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU’RE PREGANT- WHAT DO *YOU* WANT? WHAT IS RIGHT FOR *YOU*? IF YOU FIND IT IS ABORTION, THAT IS OKAY, BE IT LATE TERM OR FIRST TRIMESTER. THERE IS NOTHING BAD OR WRONG WITH THIS MEDICAL PROCEDURE; PLEASE, TAKE PRIDE IN DOING THE RIGHT THING EVEN WHEN FACING THESE HORRIBLE ANTI-CHOICE PEOPLE AND THEIR LIES.

Abortion is a blessing to me. It always will be. It may not be right for all; I’m not saying it is. But for me, and many other women; it is, and always will be. Be proud of who you are.

Fighting For Women and the Right to Abortion -From America to North Ireland... Please Share!

 This is important; just as we struggle in America for our BASIC RIGHT to health care and access to safe abortion care, so do women in many countries; Northern Ireland in particular. Please add your name to the list, share and please never give up. Safe abortion access saves lives; the only thing making abortion illegal accomplishes is the unnecessary death of women due to self induced abortions, unsafe/unclean procedures, lack of knowledge (as many women are not professional doctors and don't have access to proper equipment) and/or overdose, to just start the list of problems.

Abortion, when done safely and under a professional doctors care, is one of the safest medical procedures one can receive. It's even safer than childbirth. But when left on our own, in deseperation we will do anything to abort if that is what we know inside is right for us. That's a fact, not opinion. Abortion does not go down because of abortion bans, have I mentioned that? I have yet to see how anti-choicers are pro-life?

The true pro-lifers are the ones who support a woman's right to make her own choice.Oh, not to mention when they say abortion is only okay when the woman's life is in danger I hope everyone stops to think about that. What about those who are willing to take their own life instead of being pregnant; what about those who will take their life after pregnancy?

Why is mental illness and suicide not taken more seriously? Not only suicide; but there are far too many women who die while trying to induce miscarriage. Giving birth is a massively life changing event and shouldn't be treated as something that's mandatory of anyone.

Statement below, followed by link. Please sign and share; wherever you are in the world. America needs help; so do many places. We need to unite with women of North Ireland and stand united against those who want to see women put "back in our place".

We the undersigned call for the repeal of the Eighth Amendment to the Irish Constitution so that full reproductive health services, including abortion, can be made available in line with best medical practice, international human rights norms and the will of the majority of people in Ireland.

Click here for more information and to add your name. One struggle, one united... 

Things To Remember When Dealing With Anti-Choice Lies and Anger

If I don't write this after hearing another young woman's story and dealings with Anti's, I will possibly explode so; if you struggle with abortion because of what other people say, because of how anti-choicers behave or speak/spoke to you; please read. It is my hope the brief reasons below (there are more) regarding why anti-choicers are not worth listening to when it comes to your life just as they have nothing reliable & do not do a good job when it comes to being a judge of character in others; especially since they spend so much time spreading lies and/or calling others mean names  (e.g., murderer, slut, sinner, etc- all those things are lies from a frustrated and cruel person). 

And since none of you speak out for these
4 young men let alone the thousands of others
murdered by cops, you're all but pro-life.

My Relationship With Anti-Choicers

Almost a year ago I stopped talking with Anti's and stopped arguing with them. It is a waste of time that I can spend on things that matter. They dance around facts and other points of view while just repeating themselves and ignoring anything I say and let us not forget, also calling me or any supporter of abortion mindless names whenever facts are stated facts. 

I do, however, write and talk about them from time to time because it hurts me VERY deeply when women contact me feeling bad about themselves, feeling depressed and even at times suicidal due to words shouted or spoken by Anti(s) upon leaving or entering a clinic; not to forget those who contact me feeling the same way as above, but this time due to the Anti's who waste their time like the anti-choice clinic protesters trolling boards and other networking sources, patiently seeking and waiting for any women to dare utter the "A" word. 

Anti-Choicers Use of Deception and Cruelty -Online and In Person-

As they wait they spend their time writing or creating videos with angry, hateful and cruel lies, name-calling anyone who disagrees with their views (which is another sign of someone without an argument... and they honestly do not have any form of a legitimate argument because both medically and scientifically abortion risks and fetuses being living children have been proven as lies, have been proven untrue, for countless years now.)